Core beliefs are thoughts I have decided are true about me and my worth as a human. I recently was told that “beliefs are not true or false but rather beneficial or detrimental.” What if that’s true? What would it mean if I get to choose what I believe based on if it is beneficial or detrimental to me?

I hate modesty. I hate how it makes me hate my body and my curves and then I hate how it makes me hate my body if I’m not acceptable to the male gaze. I have to be beautiful enough to be attractive but not too beautiful to make them stumble and lust. It’s my fault if no one wants me and thinks I’m beautiful and wants to marry me and then it’s my fault if someone wants to fuck me. It’s always about men’s opinions, and no matter what, I am always wrong